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• for my single ladies!

  Posted: April 29, 2010, 6:46 am by kahawamoto

  loneliness
  independence
  solitude
  
  There is a thin line between the three. i won't refer to the dictionary for this post. Off the top of my head;
  
  Loneliness - i wish there was another body in my bed/someone to watch this movie with
  Independence - no thanks dude, i'll get a cab
  Solitude - lemmi put a nice play list and clean the house/ painting your nails while smiling to yourself...
  
  Again, just off the top of my head. Ya'll can refer to Oxford or Webster. That's the name of the other dictionary right? Webster?
  
  Aaanywho, sad part is, so many women (and men) i'm trying to be gender friendly but me thinks it's very unlikely for men, go through so much shit to avoid loneliness, would rather be with some dodgey character and unhappy, than be by themselves. The fear of loneliness. It's sad, but i'm not judging.
  
  "I may be alone, but never lonely" i think it was one Miss India Arie who coined that phrase, love her music by the way, i'm actually following her on twitter. But before i digress further, THAT IS A LOAD OF BULL. Loneliness always manages to stick it's foot in the door from time to time. Especially for the ladies, in my view, you know because of the estrogen, and we all get the 'I wish there was another body in my bed' feeling. (Especially when it rains. Doesn't help that it's raining right now, and i'm writing this at 3am...) And if we don't get distracted, we start doing stupid things like going through all our exes facebook profiles and sending random unnecessary inboxes in the name of checking up (guilty!) if any of my exes read this, hahaha! Yeah, i was checking on you, whatever nigga! :p
  
  Ladies, what you need to do is get a distraction. Fast! Quick even. Don't listen to slow music or watch romatic films, don't focus on the void. DO NOT listen to Sade, that woman's music almost finished me! It just makes shit worse. Don't facebook/twitter stalk the ex, like you don't know the reason why ya'll didn't work out in the first place! Don't look at pictures of his current squeeze and convince yourself that you are better looking... You know you is though! (damn you world wide web)
  
  Watch a comedy, join yet another social networking site, preferably one that aforementioned ex is not on, (you can never join too many social networking sites) -i'm a junkie. Put on some sexy heels and go dancing/for cocktails, don't sulk in the house because other negative stuff will catch up to you, like the extra slice of pizza you had for lunch (guilty!) go out, have fun!
  
  Better focus on independence and solitude.
  That's my two cents.

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