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• the 'hoe code' and ex fat chicks

  Posted: April 18, 2010, 10:53 pm by kahawamoto

  First i only used the term 'Hoe' in the title beacuse it rhymes with bro, and also because of the whole 'bros before hoes thing' so it has already been established.
  And i do know that it's spelt W-H-O-R-E i just don't like how that spelling looks in print. So let's go with H-O-E.
  
  I was asking some of my tweeps (twitter buddies) whether there are any rules regarding a girl dating a guy who one of her friends has slept with. Not dated, just slept with. (chibo). I'm gonna assume we've all seen how I met your mother, how Barney is always going on about the bro code. Is there some kind of code for girls???
  Like in the above situation. Some of the responses i got on twitter were
  
  "i don't see why not as long as there were no feelings"
  "even if i wanted to, I don't want my pals knowing things that only i'm meant to know"
  "it's never that serious"
  "bff's mess with each other's chipoz on the regular, it makes no sense. But guys divide and plough"
  
  i think that it could work, a girl dating a friends ex-chibo, if neither of them caught feelings after the chipsing, and if they aren't interested in each other. After all, everyone has a sexual history so it's bound to happen. (6 degrees of separation)
  
  Ooh, another thing, i'm still on this 'Hoe-Code'. I know guys occasionally use the wing man thing to Mack on girls at the club, to try chibo or whatever but do girls do the same? From the dudes side, if a guy wants to hit some girl, but she's stuck to her less attractive friend, his wingman will try diffuse the situation, and if need be entertain, chill with her, while his boy tries to get laid. Totally understandable. i admire that kind of loyalty. :)
  Would girls do the same in that situation? Be a wingwoman/wing girl (???) -the term doesn't even sound right.
  
  Is a girl, expected to chill with a guy she's not feeling, just because her friend is trying to chibo his boy? Discuss. (20 marks) lol.
  
  Seriously though. I was in such a situation this weekend and ugh... That whole awkwardness could have been avoided if she had told me the plan before. It worked out to her advantage though. I don't mind helping a friend get hers but gosh...
  
  
  This is just a thought in passing;
  Why is it that it takes so long for esteems of ex fat chicks to catch up??? Okay, i don't mean to generalise because, putting some thought into it, i know some ex fat chicks who had shitty esteem, dropped the weight, became pretty confident and are now borderline bitchy, which btw is fine. If you wanna be a bitch, by all means, do you boo boo.
  But the ones who still do stupid things like sleep with guys who are waaay below standards, come on ladies. There's never a need!
  
  
  Peace and Love.

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