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• Campus drama: Part1

  Posted: January 31, 2011, 12:20 pm by cdohnio

  I don’t really know how to start this. I’m scared. A girl I was intimate with is pregnant. Yes pregnant and I’m freaking out for her. Yes my only concern is her. I’m really worried how this will affect her mentally and psychologically. It’s just the first month of year one and already I’m in such a difficult situation. I’ll start at the beginning.
  
  So I have this friend lets call her, Q, we had sex… She was the first on campus. The next week she tells me and some of our friends (we’re kind of a group, small) that she thinks she’s missed her ps. One of us, we’ll call him, W, asked how long it had been and she says 2 weeks. She then goes on to say that she wants us to take her to the clinic so she can get a pregnancy test.
  
  Of course being the gentlemen we are, we said yes and a date was set for the next week. On the appointed date she got cold feet and cancelled. The next day, however, thanks to my skilful coaxing we went to the government clinic that is near our school. When we got there I took the lead, at the request of Q and asked whether they did pregnancy tests. The clinic, which was basically two small rooms, cubes really, seemed to be staffed with only elderly ladies. You know the mothering type that look at young people with judging eyes? The type you can be sure if they knew your mother she’d know 5 sec after you left that you were looking for a pregnancy test? Yes that type.
  
  The lady then goes on to ask us why we don’t go to the school hospital, she could tell we were students and it was free treatment there. Obviously, I want to tell her that we really don’t want the school to have the records of this test, whether it was negative or positive. Wait I did tell her that. Only then did she tell us that them didn’t have a lab so they didn’t do those tests. Nkt!! But she did guide us to the private hospital jus outside one of the school gates.
  
  We walked there, and paid for the pregnancy test, using a fake name, she was told to go pee in a cup and give it to the lab for the test. We had to wait for 10mins for the results.
  
  While we waited, W tried, and failed, to comfort saying that she had options. I kept translating to her what he meant is that we’ll figure out things together. She appreciated both our efforts. I was holding her hands. At some point we tried to talk about anything else other than what if but somehow we kept drifting back to the test.
  
  The doctor/lab technician came out with the results and, callously, holds out the results to our group and I took them. He had put them hidden under the receipt. I slide  it to the side and looked at the result.
  
  Shit, it was positive.
  
  Part 2 tomorrow. Peace.

• Posts this week

  Posted: January 30, 2011, 1:02 pm by cdohnio

  Hey y'all! Starting tomorrow I'll be dropping a bunch of posts I wanted to put up last year but didn't have the chance or means to. There are 4 or 5 posts that were actually written as one but would have been too long for one sitting/post in my opinion. So I cut it up. I've done it such a way that it provides the most entertainment while still managing to convey what was happening. I hope you like it because I personally think I did a great job on them. Either way your thoughts on them would be much appreciated so stick around. Peace!!

• I wish I was asexual

  Posted: January 25, 2011, 11:53 am by cdohnio

  And aromantic too! I really do! Life would be so so much simpler like that, atleast for me! I could be friends with anyone without becoming confused with destructive feelings and my pride bruised. If you don’t know much about asexuality you might wanna read this post here or google it. (I’d prefer you read it here thoughJ). Now let me go on.
  I’m great with people and make friends easily. Most of these are of the female variety and I don’t mind that one bit. I’m friendly, charismatic and charming. And I believe I’m quite handsome (my mum tells me this too and she never lies). I have the gift to draw people to me. I like being the center of attention.
  So I guess you’re wondering why, with all that, I would want to be asexual. As you should have read by now asexy people don’t feel any sexually attraction. I can just imagine it; I could look at any girl and not feel any sexual attraction to her! And if I was aromantic won’t I have any romantic feelings. Trust me when you have as many girl friends as I do you’re bound to get confused. Being asexy and aromantic would mean I wouldn’t have to think my sexual and romantic feelings when I become friends with a girl!
  Yeah I know what you’re thinking but right now I’d really sacrifice all the “pleasure” gotten from romantic and sexual relationships for the peace of mind that must come from not being able to confuse how you feel about someone! Shifting through those emotions is stress and you might make the wrong decision anyway. Friends are for life girlfriends for but a time. Before I sign off any one else thinks the word asexy rolls off the tongue nicely? Say it with me “Asexy!!!” JPeace!

• Hey! I'm back!!!

  Posted: January 24, 2011, 3:52 pm by cdohnio

  Hey guys! Did you miss me? I missed you. Really I have. This should technically be a new years message but it's already so late in the month there's barely any point of talking about it except perhaps to say" I hope you new year has gone well so far. How are the resolutions coming along long? I mean are you still sticking to them?"
  I personally don't do new year resolutions. I think it's because I've usually have made my long term decisions long before the new year checks in. And also because I'm awesome. I mean why wait for new years to take a look at your life and make decisions about it? Anyway before I go rambling on for too long without saying much of value. I just wanted to do this post to let yáll know that I should be posting more regularly now.
  
  Why? Well...after you guys ignored my passionate plea to donate a laptop so I could keep blogging I went home and begged my dad to get me one. He refused. Fortunately for me(and you) my room-mate recently(a couple of days ago) got one of his own. I should be jealous but I'm not. This means I can post stuff almost as soon as it comes to me. YAY! It's awesome, I know! Anyway thanks for reading:) Peace!!!
  *By the way if you're wondering about how frequently I plan to post, I'm hoping for at least one a week more when I'm feeling particularly inspired or when I break down a really long post. Peace! Again!!*

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